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1. Take some time and think about what you really want, because
knowing that sure narrows the field.
2.
Describe yourself first. A quick mention of your physical characteristics
if you are very tall, very short, very thin or very heavy, otherwise
it doesn't matter.
3. Tell about your interests - sports,
movies, books (you can't stay in bed all the time!)
4. Write
about why you're placing an ad and what you hope to get from it.
5. Tell what sort of physical characteristics make you feel
sexy.
6. Show
us, don't tell us that you have a sense of humor, show it in your
ad.
7. If you're uncomfortable describing yourself, upload a
photo that shows you at your best. If you're a happy person, upload
a happy photo!
8. Be
creative! Write a poem, talk about your dog or anything that would
make someone want to know more about you.
9. Think about why someone would benefit from knowing you
and loving you, then tell about that. You know what you want to
know about other people, so tell those things about yourself.
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10. Don't be negative. NEVER
say "I'm getting over a relationship where I was dumped and I
need a friend to feel better."
11. Age
is only a number and is no reflection on a person's sexiness or personality.
However, if age is important to you, write that you're looking for
a person in a certain age range. Please don't ask for any man between
18-99. You won't get replies, as you're screaming that you'll take
anything.
12. A laundry list of what you're looking for in another
person to satisfy your needs is going to get no response. Remember,
relationships are partnerships, even if you're looking for casual
sex.
13. It
IS important to let others know if there is a particular type of
person you're looking for. If you want someone who shares a fetish
of yours, by all means list it and anything else that you have determined
you won't live without.
14. I can't say it enough times, if you can't spell, then
use a spell checker. Write your ad in a word processing program
and check it and then cut and paste it into your ad. If you don't
know how to cut and paste, write to us and we'll tell you how. You
have one chance at a first impression and if every 3rd word is misspelled,
you won't come across as bright or intelligent, even if you are.
15. Be
honest, it's easier and you don't have to remember anything.
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