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Dear Maureen, I have been with the same single guy several times, and it's always a great experience. The problem is that I can't stop fantasizing about this man when I'm by myself. Is this normal? Tormented |
Dear Tormented,
Having someone new in your life can be very exciting. A different touch, a different smell, all new and intriguing. I'm sure there is nothing abnormal in fantasizing about your man, but I do feel that the fantasies will abate once the newness and excitement have worn off. Hope this helps! |
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Dear Maureen, I've been in contact with a guy via a dating site for quite some time now. He is at the point where he wants to know my real name and phone number, but I'm not sure if I'm prepared to give him these details just yet. I like this guy and he sounds like fun, but I'm worried that he will give up on me if I don't tell him what he wants to know. Concerned |
Dear Concerned, My advice would be to give him just your first name. This way he won't be able to trace any of your other personal details if things don't go well between the two of you. Also, I would ask him for his phone number and call him from a public phone box. Remember that it's always a good idea to guard your personal details to begin with. Even when you think you're ready to go on a date with him, only give him your cell phone number to contact you on. Good luck! |
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Dear Maureen, I am a member of two different dating sites, but on both I seem to be getting a lot of responses from men who only want one thing! I am not into one-night stands and am looking for a long-term relationship or life partner. Am I being too selective? How can I stop these men who only want casual sex from contacting me? Choosy |
Dear Choosy, No, you are not being too selective. It's great that you know exactly what you want out of a relationship. The first thing you should do is review the type of sites you are signed up to. There are plenty of sites out there and perhaps you would be better off being a member of a non-explicit site. Even then, ensure that you clearly state that you are not interested in casual sex or one-night stands. The good news is that there are plenty of men out there who are looking for the same thing as you are. I'm sure you will find them in time. |
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