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Are There Questions YOU Should Ask?
by Danni
We all have things in our past that we'd rather
not discuss, but if we're in a loving relationship, our partner,
husband or lover deserve to know about us, both good and bad.
We also have the right to know the same about our partner.
When Jill found out that her sweetheart of many months had
previously been married she was really upset that he'd deceived her.
Warren said it wasn't important to him, he had no contact with the
ex and frankly, Jill had never asked. She sat down and made a
list of questions that she felt it was important to know about
Warren.
Warren didn't want to hide anything, but
wasn't sure what was the good time to blurt out his past. The
questions helped.
Here's what Jill wanted to know and you might
use these or come up with your own set of questions for things that
are important for you to know.
1. Have you ever been arrested or
have you been convicted of a crime?
2. Do you have any lawsuits pending against you?
3. Does anyone have a financial claim on you that might
affect me?
4. Is it wrong to take things from your employer, like
pens, paper, etc?
5. How do you feel about leisure time? What's the
best way to relax?
6. Do you enjoy your job? Do you envision leaving
it anytime soon?
7. Which of us should clean the toilets and why?
8. What sort of pets wouldn't you consider at all?
9. Do you have any habits you wish you could
change?
10. How do you feel about your family? Do you enjoy
their company?
11. In the past, how have you resolved differences?
12. How well do you handle conflict or confrontation?
13. Do you need your own way most all the time?
14. Do you have any family history of any life threatening
disease
or condition?
15. Do you have or have you had a sexually transmitted
disease?
(genital herpes might not be
life threatening, but it's fair to tell)
16. Are you capable of having children?
17. Do you want children?
18. Do you enjoy the company of children?
19. Do you have other children anywhere that I don't know
about?
20. Do you intend to remain in this area or do you have plans
to move?
21. If you die accidentally where would do you want to be
buried?
22. Do you have a will? If yes, where can it be located
when needed?
23. Are there any foods you refuse to eat?
24. Is there anything you are violently allergic to?
25. Do you have any sexual fetishes you're a bit shy
discussing?
26. Is there anything special that really turns you on?
27. Tell me three areas of your body that you love me to
touch.
28. How do you feel about oral sex?
29. How often do you feel you need and want sexual
intercourse?
30. Do you consider me to be your soulmate?
Now your personal questions might be very
different than Jill's, but if you haven't asked them, you can't get
angry about what you don't know.
Start with a few questions and call it verbal
foreplay. You get answers and you and your partner ends up
with great sex.
Enjoy!!
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